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Coconut Oil Substitutions: Interview with Tienlyn Jacobson (Thoughtful Misfit)

Last Updated on March 28, 2024 by Kapuluan

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We recently had a chance to sit down with Tienlyn Jacobson from and learn about her favorite ways to use coconut oil. 

Tienlyn is a fashion and beauty expert, producer, blogger, and on-air host. Outside of beauty and fashion, her biggest passions are holistic living and renovating eco-friendly vacation destinations with her husband in Joshua Tree, where they reside.

What is your favorite coconut oil substitution?

Regarding food, coconut oil is my favorite substitute for almost anything where you need fat. I don’t eat butter, so I bake with it a lot, and I also use it to ‘butter’ my toast, which is hands down the most delicious thing in the world.

As for beauty, it’s pretty much an all-purpose product for me. From face wash to moisturizer, it has been a total lifesaver! And believe it or not, you can use it as a deodorant as well – it’s moisturizing and antibacterial, so it kills odor.

The secret is sort of out with coconut oil and its benefits. Are there any coconut oil substitutions or uses that would surprise people?

People often don’t realize you can use it in makeup applications and skincare. For example, I replace eyeshadow with coconut oil for one of my favorite low-key, high-impact makeup looks. I start with a bold, matte red lip, fill in any gaps in my brows with a shadow, add a few coats of waterproof mascara, and then finish the whole thing by swiping a tiny dab of coconut oil over my lids.

It’s kind of like a more subtle version of eye-gloss, which has become more and more popular recently, but it’s more moisturizing and soaks into your skin a little as the day goes on, so there’s no stickiness, and way less running or traveling down the side of your face like you sometimes get with an eye-gloss.

I also love to mix my blush with a tiny bit of coconut oil for a quick lip color that’s super moisturizing. Just apply your blush to your lips with a dry finger, then dab coconut oil over it to smooth it out for a pretty, subtle look.

Do you ever cook with coconut oil? Any favorite recipes?

I think 85% of the things I make have coconut oil in them in some way or another. For example, I cook many Chinese dishes in a wok, and because coconut oil has such a high smoke point, it’s fantastic for a quick stir-fry.

My favorite treat, however, is drizzling liquid coconut oil over dairy-free ice cream or sorbet – especially chocolate! It becomes hard the minute it hits the ice cream, and the texture is similar to the chocolate shell on a drumstick or chocolate-covered ice cream bar. Bonus – it picks up whatever flavor you’re eating, so it feels super decadent, even though it’s not at all.

Some people don’t like to “take” coconut oil (on its own) as a dietary supplement. Do you have any cool ways you like to incorporate coconut oil into your diet where you don’t have to take it on its own?

I ingest it a lot just because I cook with it every day, but I do also like it with my coffee. Most people like blending coconut oil into their coffee when they combine the two, but I love those first few sips when it’s just melted on the top. It’s rich and moisturizing for my lips while I’m drinking!

Do you have any favorite DIY skin or hair recipes you create with coconut oil?

I’ve been applying it to the ends of my hair before getting into the shower and shampooing it. It protects the ends from over-drying but doesn’t weigh the hair down.

One mask recipe I’ve been playing with is to mix bentonite clay with a bit of water and coconut oil for a face mask. You get all the benefits of bentonite clay, which will detox your entire face, but the coconut oil prevents it from overly drying out your skin, which clay masks can often do.

Kapuluan interviews Tienlyn Jacobson of Thoughtful Misfit

What types of things do you not like to use (unnatural, chemicals, etc.) that you’ve found coconut oil can replace?

I like to mix coconut oil with baking soda instead of using toothpaste. In addition, I’ve recently started reading up on all the adverse effects of fluoride (pretty scary, actually – but the most vanity-focused one is that it can contribute to aging). As a result, I have been actively trying to cut it out of my lifestyle, starting with drinking water and toothpaste.

Do you have any health issues, ailments, or joint problems that coconut oil helps with?

I’ve had breakouts my entire life and have tried all the typical solutions, from benzoyl peroxide to oil-free moisturizers to over-exfoliating. Still, it wasn’t until I started using coconut oils instead of my typical acne treatments that I started seeing an improvement. At this point, I’ve researched enough that I can go pretty deep into why coconut oil helps, but the quick summary is that coconut oil is antiseptic. Hence, it fights bacteria and doesn’t disrupt your skin’s natural ecosystem – so you can truly heal your skin without opening up a whole other can of skincare concerns, which is what most acne products on the market tend to do today.


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